You want to say something important, but haven't yet.

Here's a 50‑minute Situation Session to find what to say and what to do next. Imagine being calm and confident in that conversation, and how that might ripple out into the rest of your life.

This tends to help when:

  • You're good at what you do, but feel your spark dimmed.
  • There's something important you keep leaving unsaid to a partner or a co‑founder, because last time it didn't go well.
  • You keep the peace by going along with it, but it's adding up.
  • You feel hints about your next level, but it's not clear yet.

Someone probably came to mind already. If no one did, scan your calendar (the meeting you dread), your team (whoever you work around), or your head (whoever you keep rewriting messages to), then grab a time below.

"I'd been carrying hard feelings toward my co‑founder, a close friend, for years. In one 1:1 session with Scott I got clear on what I actually wanted to say and how to say it, and when I finally had the conversation the charge was gone and the air was cleared."
Founder, multi‑billion dollar company

Private 1:1 · work or personal · about 50 minutes, one situation · Zoom or in‑person in Austin · free first session

Show up as you are; I'll do the heavy lifting.

Slammed? We can compress it to about 25 minutes, same goal.

I open 6–8 of these a month. If the calendar looks full, email scott@scottsolowild.com.

Why it stays stuck

I've found the fight happens when there's a judgment mixed in. Separating those lets the important thing be said, and land. That's how a conversation you've dreaded for months can clear in a single exchange. There might be a second tangle too: several conversations trying to happen at once. Sorting those takes five minutes.

How it works

  1. You lay out what's been going on and what's at stake.
  2. We separate the important thing from the judgment that's been keeping it unsaid.
  3. You leave knowing what to say and do afterward.

About 50 minutes · Free first session · No ongoing commitment

Who benefits most

People who are good at what they do and can feel a next level coming, and who have one high‑stakes conversation in the way of it: with a partner, a co‑founder, a direct report, a parent, a peer. Work or personal. If someone keeps taking up space in your head and you haven't said what actually needs to be said, this is for you. Maybe you tried it once and it didn't go well, or you've never tried, as long as you still believe it could change.

Sometimes it doesn't look like a conversation at all. You keep looking for what's next, when what's next is a conversation with someone already here.

Is this for you?

This is the room for:

  • One real person you need to talk to, and a specific thing you've left unsaid
  • Wanting words for what to say next, rather than a diagnosis of why you're like this
  • Moving on it soon, this week or the next, rather than someday

I suggest a different room for:

  • Understanding your past and your patterns over many months, where a therapist is the right guide
  • Building broad leadership skills and frameworks, where an executive coach fits better
  • Exploring a situation with no particular person in it yet

About Scott

I'm Scott Solo Wild, a conversation coach in Austin, TX. I've helped partners, founders, co‑founders, and executives get through the conversations that were costing them, and step into what's on the other side. My background mixes 15 years in software engineering and technical leadership with years in high‑pressure sport. Past sessions have included people connected to Firefly Aerospace, Capital Factory, LeafHealth, and beyond. I live in Austin with my wife and two kids and meet people over Zoom or in person.